My wife is very worried. As a Navy veteran I understand what he is going to be doing but she is concerned and I don't know what to tell her other than he will be fine. We are very proud of our son but we miss him greatly already.
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Tim, I know exactly what you are going through Tim. Our son is now in his 4th week. He shipped on 6/10 and we have not heard his voice since. His girlfriend has heard his voice twice. At least now we are getting letters. The first couple of letters were absolutely pitiful, made us cry a lot. The last couple letters we received sounded sooo much better. It's unbelievable the difference in his tone, his confidence and everything. He is tired, but he is supposed to be tired. That's part of the process as you well know. Just keep the faith and let your wife know that he is fine. That's about all I could get across to my wife as well.
My son left on the 19th and is in Great Lakes with your son and a few others in this discussion. The day my son (Mack) left, I was amazed at how stressed I was. I only figured that out after I took a three hour nap as I do not sleep during the day. I know they will do well and we are very proud of them!
Good point Brad...also realize that a lot of people get hung up on what their sailor is doing on what day....those schedules are somewhat flexible so it's more important to focus on the overall training picture....that is what the Return to Boot Camp videos are good for.
Have your wife watch the videos on what happens week to week, then focus more on the weeks than the days. Makes it much easier.
The first week is the worst, then by week three things tend to get better. Also, a good chance you'll get a phone call week three.
Remind your wife that your son is safer at Boot Camp than if he were on a college campus somewhere. He's definitely not out drinking.
Or Son is Five Weeks in........it gets better when the first calls and letters come in. He has called us twice in these few weeks. The progress they show and the confidence they gain helps you to know that they are doing well. This time seems to go faster as the P.I.R. Date gets closer. Tell Mom to hang in........it gets easier.
Doug Capen
have her watch these videos: http://www.navydads.com/forum/topics/return-to-bootcamp
am sure these will help ease her mind