My sailor is in phase 2 of nuke school (Prototype is next). He has done well with his grades up until recently. Usually a 3.2 average. The last few weeks he has been struggling with the tests and has been around 2.51-2.8 grades. He doesn't spend time playing and is totally dedicated to succeed. He volunteers many hours to studying above his required hours. But he just cant get the answers "Exactly" the way the tests are graded using some kind of "Key". From what he's telling me answers need to be per verbatim from whats on this grading key. He knows the material but misses a word or two and it's graded as wrong. So he's really beating himself up on this as he feels he cant memorize it all. He's a older mature sailor and has graduated college for mechanical engineering before enlisting. His test today was a 2.51 and he is mad as hell with himself. Doesn't want to talk about it or discuss it. Said he needs to figure out how to study this material cause everything he's tried has failed. I've mentioned study groups and talking to a instructor for advice about his issue. I believe he has psyched himself out it's hurting him.
So any advice from you all would be appreciated. Can anyone tell me how they grade tests and what they expect as answers. Any tips to help his studying technique?
Thanks to all who reply.
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Awesome. There is a former shipmate of mine that belongs to this group who was a Leading Crew Chief at the Charleston Prototype. If you have any questions about the Prototype training, he is a great resource. His name is Tim Murray.
I believe so. I passed on your advice and he went a did some "Run Time". His last test was good and he feels good about the ones coming up. He's to graduate the 21st of July. Then Prototype. He really looking forward to that. Thanks for all the good advice.
Any change in the situation over the last couple of weeks?
Randall W. Adams said:
You called it Scott. Its a rough time right now. I've forwarded him the responses I've received and finally he is going to talk to his instructors. He's got us parents support, but I have to do a bit of Tough Love to get through to him. Moms good cop, I'm Bad cop. Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it. It's good to hear from other folks who have had the same experiences. God Bless
Randy
Scott Henry said:
Thank you TJ. I will pass this on to my sailor. I think I have gotten through to him this week with all the responses I have forwarded him. He's beginning to see the points you made here. I appreciate the advice.
Randy
TJ creech said:
Thank you Scott. My sailor always puts his heart and soul to excel in everything he does. He's always wanted to be in the Navy since he was little. He's a little hard headed sometimes as I've basically repeated some of what you have replied. I have forwarded your response as well as some of the others I received and I heard today he's going to talk to his instructors. Finally! He has mentioned he would like to come back as a Instructor sometime and he tells me he has to finish with a higher grade point average or be above 50% of his class??? This would help his advancement in his Navy career. Can you shed some light on that? Thanks for the advice. I'll probably be back with other questions down the road. Thank you for your service. God Bless.
Randy
Scott Henry said:
Thank you Rocco. I have been forwarding him the responses I have received and I think it's getting through. Thanks for the advice.
Randy
Rocco A Cavallo said:
Hi Randall
First of all, thank you and your son for his commitment and service.
As a father of a son who completed A School recently and had a similar situation, I can relate.
He made it through the process and believes that Prototype school is well worth overcoming the struggles.
I suggest you continue to encourage him as you have done. The fact is he only needs to maintain a 2.5 to pass the exams, everything else is icing on the cake. If he has an issue with comps he may be offered oral exams as a way to progress to Prototype school.
I do not wish to belittle those who score higher. The Navy is investing a lot into your son and do not want him to fail; continue to encourage him to seek assistance.
Hope this helps.
Praying for you both.