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Just got the I'm here call

We just got the I'm here and will talk to you in three weeks call. It was good to hear he made it safely but he sounded tired. Thanks for the notes and comments. It's good to know you not alone and others feel the same way. It will be good to hear from him in three weeks to see how he is doing.
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Just got home from hotel drop off

Well we just got home from dropping my son off at the hotel. It took a long time to get to this new chapter in all our lives starting over a year ago when he sprung the new he was joining the Navy, but he made it. No bells or whistles but lots of tears and hugs. It's a strange feeling watching your little boy turn into a man almost over night. Even though I know he is going to be fine and he is looking forward for what is ahead of him, it's still hard to watch him go. It's also going to be strange to see how fast but long 8 weeks will be before graduation. As the time goes by I'll try to post what I can when I am able to hear from him. I know that communication during boot camp is very limited, and for good reasons, I hope to hear how things are going and what is doing. His mom and I thought we could not be any more proud of him then the day he passed induction, but we were wrong. As the weeks and days went by we could see a change cone over him. He argued less with his mom and took on more personal responsibility for him actions. He even helped in our store with out giving us grief.If any other dad's have someone heading to the lakes this week let me know. I love to hear how you new adult is doing.God bless all that have searved before, with and after my son, no matter the reason why they chose to serve, they are of a special group that all should be thankful for.
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My son will be graduating in a few short months and then I think he is trying to get into some medical class .I think it's so awesome he is way smarter than I was.I think of and pray for our guys daily and ask others to do the same.It's hard not to be personal here but we all need to watch certainly names but also dates.I was wondering if security will be stepped up with recent threats?If so that would make me feel better.I wish all our sailors family's well in these crazy times of the dirtbags the terrorist God bless.
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Start of A school

               My son leaves for bootcamp on april 7,2015 and he is ready to shove off. His

        mom & i are very proud of him. My question is, how soon does the bootcamp staff

        know when his A school class will start? I have heard that some start late, some

        sailors leave as early as 5:30am on saturday after PIR on friday. Go Navy

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Latest/greatest...

Thanks everyone for your kind words of encouragement and information. This is definitely a great support group for Navy Dads!

Below is a transcription of my son's first letter home from boot camp. Thought I'd share it...

Dear Mom and Dad,

 

It’s been an interesting couple of weeks here at the Great Lakes. It seems every passing day blends in with the past few weeks. It’s not too bad here, we PT fairly easily except when we get in trouble for talking or some such thing, then the PT is enough to make me sweat! Haha! We’re marching better every day now, I secured the guidon position for the moment. The guidon essentially drives the division from the front right side, I even get to carry our divisions flag! That’s pretty cool.

 

The food is good and healthy as can be, I’ve actually lost a little body fat because there’s no opportunity to snack on sugary filled foods. The Recruit Division Commanders aren’t too bad, sure they yell some, but that’s just their job and if you follow protocol they’re really helpful. With my position as guidon I can’t hold a staff job, but I’m being noticeable and helpful in any way I can so I’ll get advanced to E-3.

 

I took the DEP test and although I don’t know for certain I think I passed.The test wasn’t too bad and I was well prepared after all, now I just have to pass the PFA. I’m not worried about my abilities, just about losing on a technicality. Anyways, long story short, things are going well here and we’re trucking along nicely. It’s not what I would call “fun” but I’m not hating it and I can’t wait to see you guys at graduation.

 

So what’s going on in the world? They don’t tell us much in here, we just have bits and pieces occasionally, I’m dying for some current events, haha! We went to chapel today as well, I’ve never appreciated praise and worship so much after not having any music for 2 weeks. Anyways, times almost up so I have to sign off, I love you guys and I’m thinking of you all the time.

 

Sincerely,

 

Shawn

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graduation

Got back from graduation from great lakes. Stayed at navy lodge. Everything was great. Loved the graduation 599 of the navys finest. Resturants were great. Tai sushi and jakes pizza. Only bad thing was he had to fly out 530 am saturday morning. Not much time. Very proud of my son but miss him dearly.
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Northwest Ohio Navy Dads/parents

If there are any Navy Dads or parents in northwest Ohio interested in a meet, there will be a get together on Feb. 28, 2015 in Napoleon, Ohio.  If interested let me know and I will get you the info.  This has also been on the Ohio Navy parents Facebook page.

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A school

My son is set to graduate on Febuary 27th. I received a letter from him yesterday. In it he tells me him A school has been changed from 9 weeks to 27 days. His going for AO. How could it get cut from 9 weeks to 4?
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Today is my sons first day at DEP and my wife and I are going to support him. We have some questions one of witch is can he change jobs?

When he picked his job last week it did not have a A-School rating. After coming home and doing some investigating we brought this to his attention and he is worried that he cant change. He has a 56 overall score. Can someone help use put his mind at ease? Thanks

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Prayers to family and friends of Special Warfare Operator 1st Class William "Blake" Marston, 31, of Concord, NH who died during military parachute training in DeLand, Fla., on Jan. 10, 2015. Marston was assigned to an East Coast-based SEAL Team, and had served in the Navy for six years. Marston completed SEAL training in 2009.    

I did not know Blake; one of his Uncles is a close friend and ski instructor with me.  The descriptions in local press regarding this young man are more than commendable.  Prayers and condolences to all. Rest in peace. ~ Pat 

http://obits.dignitymemorial.com/dignity-memorial/obituary.aspx?n=William-Marston&lc=1704&pid=173851348&mid=6278691&Affiliate=unionleader&PersonID=173842941&FHID=4796

http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/unionleader/obituary.aspx?n=william-marston-blake&pid=173842941&fhid=4796

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ride from and to airport

who do I contact about transportation from O'Hare to Spring Hill Suites on 1/8 will be landing at 3:30 thinking maybe 4:15 trying to do this on a budget. thank you any info will be appreciated. leaving on 1/11

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MY son

My son andrew is at boot camp. I have received to disturbing calls from him, I am concerned for his condition. Andrew is no quitter and is a hard working person, i think he has made a bad decison joining the navy. He wants out, what can i do.

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A photo makes a wonderful Christmas present.

Sitting there with my 4 month old grandson enjoying a lovely Christmas morning my phone starts to jump off the table. RTC had uploaded 612 photos of our SRs for a nice Christmas surprise.

There my boy was in clear living color enjoying his morning bowl of Special K  and bananas while studying his Blue Jacket manual. He seemed oblivious to the photographer. Why am I not surprised. :)

It was a nice and unexpected surprise to see him in his NWUs doing his thing. I found him several other photos, as the photographers were getting the other SRs from different angles.

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So he got an early call home but it wasn't to me.

Monday he called his mom for the usual "extra information" they always seem to need for those getting a high security clearance. I'm not sure they really need this info because I know for a fact that the information they asked for was already clear, concise and correct. I remember going over everything with my son to make sure all the "I's" were dotted and "T's" were crossed. I think they make random choices to see if there are in inconsistencies in the information given to recruiters and the information they get when they call home.

He should have called me too because they asked him what city I was born. His mother said he told them it was the city I grew up in, which is incorrect. I hope that doesn't cause him any trouble. I immediately wrote to tell him he had gotten the cities mixed up. He will probably be upset when he finds out.

His mom said that she tried to talk to him but he was able to converse. They must have been standing over him. She said he sounded good though which I was glad to hear.

Can't wait for his first letter and his mid point through RTC call.

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I had five letters ready to go so those are getting mailed today. He will have something to read over this weekend. Got reservations at the Navy lodge and that is covered. Somehow I was late to the party as all the suites were gone. No matter I was still able to get a room with a kitchenette so we can cook for him.

He sent the form letter last Thursday so they are humping it. I'm glad he is graduating two weeks sooner than we speculated.

Now it's time to hunker down, write letters and count the days.

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Div 803 graduation question

My son's pir is 12/12 . When we spent the day on Thanksgiving he indicated he might be home for Christmas before Dive Prep at Gl. We have not heard from him since other than a few letters, but when might we find out if Christmas is a reality? He said no promises however I can tell you my wife and I are hopeful. Looking forward to Sarges meet and greet Thursday and spending the weekend with our son during his Liberties.
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Traveling by Train from Newark to Norfolk.

Greeting,

Does anyone have experience traveling by train to Norfolk?

My son is traveling back to Norfolk after leave here in NJ.  Wondering if there are any transfers on the line and what the service is like getting from the station to the base.  Taxi? does the base run a shuttle? 

Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks

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The Box Came Today

Well that was faster than I expected. I had my son send the box to my workplace because I knew it needed to be signed for. Imagine my surprise when I saw that box with my son's name on it sitting on my desk today. I didn't expect to get emotional about it but it came upon me all of a sudden. I'd been okay since I dropped him off at the recruiters office. I may keep the box to store his letters and other mementos from RTC, "A" school and beyond. 

I got his call late Monday night but I haven't able to write much because I caught the flu bug the day he reported to Great Lakes. My son and my grandson are the only ones in the whole family that didn't get the bug. The same thought kept running through my head, "please don't let me be throwing up when he calls." Well guess what? Never the less I was able to compose myself and pick up the phone. He sounded great. He was using his best military bearing, reading the scripted message. I had to laugh because I'd been through it myself. I told we loved him and we we're proud of him. He said he needed to get off because he didn't want to stand out.

BTW, as I was taking his clothes out of the box and saw a little piece of paper laying in the bottom of the box. He was able make a little note to me on the back of the garment tags off his socks. :)

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The Adventure Begins!

Dropped my son off at the recruiter's office yesterday to send him off on his great adventure and his new life. It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. We've been very tight for 24 years and all in one swoop there is an instant and long separation. I remember the day he called me on the way home from his physical in August. It got real when I heard him say"Dad, I ship on December 1st."     Gulp!

I am so happy for him because it is the culmination of a lot of hard work and this something he has always wanted to do. He has transformed his body from a somewhat pudgy kid to a buff young man. He lost 35lbs. in 6 months to meet the weight requirements and has disciplined himself to stay well under the weight limit during DEP. He and I rode 1000's of miles on bikes, ran and did P90X over the course of a year to make sure he was physically ready.

Being a Navy vet myself I was able to help guide him, as much as possible, through the recruiting process. Helping him understand the difference between legitimate information and inflated reality was important. I may have angered his recruiters once or twice but I didn't want to hear any of their canned sales pitches. I know they are just doing their job but it's more important for a prospective recruit to get what they want and get it writing. I fell victim to that during my enlistment and I wasn't going to let it happen to him.

That being said, my son is on his way. He will start his in processing tonight. I tried to help prepare him mentally because the first week, especially the first 48 hours were going to suck. I'd love to be a fly on the wall.

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